Tag: advertising

  • Current advertising

    Current advertising

    Advertising CHRISTCHURCH’S PREMIUM MATURE ESCORT, AMBER O’HARA, NOW OFFERING 3 HOUR+ EVENING BOOKINGS ALL YEAR ROUND FOR GENTS, MATURE COUPLES & SINGLE, MATURE LADIES plus new ALL DAY bookings: for 8 or 10 hours including hot sex, great conversation, sight-seeing, dining out or whatever. Hello lovelies, My name is Amber OHara. If you are a…

  • Exploring this blog

    Exploring this blog

    My first R18 splash page on the hosted website using my own domain Welcome to my website!  Remember when most new websites had that on them?  I remember attending a course for a company I worked for and the instructor specifically said it was a no-no.  “We don’t write Welcome to our Brochure on our…

  • Sex Workers Starting With Why

    Sex Workers Starting With Why

    Roy Lichenstein We Rose Up Slowly (1964)   Why do sex workers do what they do? I’ve been enjoying the fabulous book Start With Why by Simon Sinek after a recommendation by someone I respect a lot and who has had an amazing career in their (creative) field. In fact I listened to the audio…

  • Advertising and “bait and switch”

    Advertising and “bait and switch”

    With improvements in technology and the Prostitution Reform Act and ladies becoming independent and doing their own marketing, the sex industry has come so far.  You can more or less expect to get what you see in the photographs with independent escorts, although some complain of dishonest or overly-flattering photos or photos which were taken…

  • Must we mature sex workers still lie about our age?

    Must we mature sex workers still lie about our age?

    A guest contributor on my blog last year wrote in favour of mature ladies, acknowledging the benefits of more experience and knowledge of the wonders of a woman’s sexuality. While agreeing with this, as an “enlightened” (or I could say mature) woman who now feels okay about being real about my age – and a…

  • To Network or Not to Network

    To Network or Not to Network

    It can be lonely being a sex worker yet I’ve met a few ladies who prefer to stay away from any socialising online or in real life and keep to themselves. They don’t want any dramas despite the benefits that can be had from meeting and greeting with other working girls or clients. I can…

  • Sex workers and websites: if you build it will they come?

    Sex workers and websites: if you build it will they come?

    Although many sex workers are still getting websites built for them or DIYing it with free sites like WIX or blogs, I have heard some saying they don’t know what to do with them (“now what?”) or how to get clients (“traffic”) to go to them. So I’ve been picking the brains of one or…

  • What it’s like to be the only one

    What it’s like to be the only one

    Stephanie Hunter – Australian Escort I’ve been in touch with a few escorts from Australia as well as one or two kiwi escorts now working over the ditch.  It seems that even though our laws are similar, that is, that penetrative oral sex must also be covered, in recent times, in Australia sex workers have…

  • Seduce me with song

    Seduce me with song

    The End of the Song by Edmund Leighton(1902) illustrates the story of Tristan and Iseult, a tragedy about the adulterous love between the Cornish knight Tristan (Tristram) and the Irish princess Iseult (Isolde, Yseult). There are so many secret nerves in the body, that it is impossible to keep track.  There is a nerve which…

  • Let It Be Known

    Let It Be Known

    I really love what I do.  I honestly feel that what I do helps mankind and is almost a spiritual service.  I don’t mind if you laugh.  I’m not saying I’m holy, or godly – I realise I’m the polar opposite of a nun.  But I know that I’ve helped people through this line of…

  • Advice from a Client

    Advice from a Client

    Les Nymphes et le Satyre by William Bouguereau. 1873, Clark Art Institute, Williamstown, Massachusetts. I welcome contributions from readers and clients, and while the contributor below has never been to see me, I gather he has chalked up quite a bit of experience seeing working ladies in his time.  Over to him: I have been…

  • Celebrating erotic red hair

    Celebrating erotic red hair

    As I have mentioned in previous blog posts, even though in society there are often disparaging remarks made about natural redheads, there are certain men who have a preference for redheads and find us extremely sexy.  As I am one of the few naturally red-haired escorts in my city, I am lucky enough to be…

  • Fear of Fifty

    Fear of Fifty

    Flidais, my favourite Celtic Goddess, of a voracious sexual appetite Part of us wants to love like the goddesses — coldly and capriciously. Part of us owes allegiance to Kali, eating her lover and attaching his skull to her waist. Part of us wants to love like Juno, scooping up mortal men, toying with them, then…

  • Be nice to me, Invercargill (and Queenstown)

    Be nice to me, Invercargill (and Queenstown)

    I, with two of my beautiful working girl friends, are lucky enough to be visiting Invers tomorrow, Friday and Saturday.  I think it is my first time, ever, in my whole life that I have ever been there.  Imagine my excitement! I’ll then be back in Christchurch on Monday, then I’ll be taking a couple…

  • Trying out online advertising?

    Trying out online advertising?

    Gif: early sex work images of Amber O’Hara, aged in late 40s, escort Since I have been advertising in the Press, I have been very happy with the lovely clients who have come to see me.  My phone does not ring too much, but my advertisement in the local newspaper’s Escorts column has supplied me…

  • Et tu, Google+?

    Et tu, Google+?

    Amber O’Hara’s now banned Google Plus profile Gosh, it’s as if sex workers don’t have enough to juggle with, without now being overly-censored by the stuffy and the righteous on this vast wasteland of free porn, otherwise known as the Internet.  Oh well, Google+, (who are still hoping to become the new Facebook,) which I…

  • To the men who respond to my newspaper advertisements

    To the men who respond to my newspaper advertisements

    my little advert Please don’t think that because I’m advertising in the Press or your free community newspapers, alongside the traditionally lower-priced but sometimes fictional Asian agency ladies, that I am also prepared to offer my services for lesser amounts than I advertise elsewhere. If the truth be told, I would love to see you,…

  • Favourite lingerie – part 4

    Favourite lingerie – part 4

    Channelling the good old-fashioned whore In a previous life, I like to think I would have worked in an old-fashioned bordello, like the lovely one in the film The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas.  I just love the cheerful attitude toward customer service, and who can fail to adore the gorgeous Dolly Parton who played the…

  • Favourite lingerie – part 3

    Favourite lingerie – part 3

    Amber O’Hara: trying to give the impression she is innocent by wearing white As is obvious, I’m no virgin, and I’m not really interested in doing the schoolgirl fantasy for anyone or anything like that, but every now and then I get the urge to evoke an idea of purity, which white is good for,…

  • Favourite lingerie – part 2

    Favourite lingerie – part 2

    MILF feeling wild… The very first corset I bought was this red one.  I don’t wear it so much now because it has got a bit “baggy” and has some strange bulges in parts, even when it is on the tightest hook and eye fastening, perhaps because I loved it and wore it so much.…

  • Favourite lingerie – part 1

    Favourite lingerie – part 1

      One of my favourite pieces of lingerie is my black corset.   It is constructed of a satin-like fabric, is boned and has lacing up the back.  I normally wear it with lace boy shorts and thigh-high stay-up stockings. I was never really into corsets but now I am obsessed with them.  If fitted properly…

  • Lay back and have some fun

    Lay back and have some fun

    Or get on top and have some fun, whatever the case may be. It’s officially official.  I’ve started work as an escort and I’m available now. Introducing … Amber O’Hara, independent escort, Christchurch, New Zealand.

  • Step Five – twitter and my new BFFs

    Step Five – twitter and my new BFFs

    I am having a lot of fun online.  I have discovered the fun of twitter.  There is much out there to laugh at and enjoy.  I have found the twitter community to be lots of fun, and very welcoming.  I don’t know if it’s beneficial to me and my “business” although it seems other working girls…

  • Step Four – arranging photos

    Step Four – arranging photos

    The next step was arranging the photographer.  I found an experienced photographer online who came to my premises and took some photos.  Although I have already had some test shots taken by friends, the photographer I hired had an amazing camera and lights which has made all the difference.  I did not want to pose…

  • Step Two – sorting out ads

    Step Two – sorting out ads

    I have met a couple of working girls (whose identity will remain secret) through the house where I will be renting a room, and have listened to their feedback about advertising.  To start off with (and to keep my independence) I intend advertising in the Christchurch Press’s Escorts’ Column.  In my ad, I hope to…