Tag: video

  • Sex work after lockdown

    Sex work after lockdown

    You can’t please all of the people all of the time. You’ll need to login to enjoy this anonymous phone message It seems not long ago that Covid-19 broke out and we were forced into lockdown, and now we are nearly into level 2. According to the government business website, in level 2, non-medical massage…

  • Ways to do sex work – part one (cam work)

    Ways to do sex work – part one (cam work)

    My occasional series about selling sex originally coincided (until my blog was rearranged) with the impending release of a film about cam models (ladies who interact with paying and non-paying internet customers via web cams). It is kind of like live porn, being largely user-directed and featuring a solitary actor (it is quite complicated to…

  • What to do if you bump into your sex worker in public

    What to do if you bump into your sex worker in public

    Image: Bob Hoskins and Cathy Tyson from the film, Mona Lisa (1986) We all need to get out and about in the world to buy stuff and whatever, and sometimes we are with our families, work colleagues, friends or partners when a sex worker bumps into one of her clients. So what is the correct…

  • Buying Sex – creative licence and a Canadian doco

    Buying Sex – creative licence and a Canadian doco

    This blog post may not be of interest to many readers because it is about a film that not many will get to see and it is not really a film that’s even worth seeking out.  But it’s about buying sex, which involves clients of sex workers so I thought I would give my take…

  • Talk dirty to me

    Talk dirty to me

    You may have noticed that I offer a new service now, namely phone sex. I’ve always been the girl who loves sex and especially loves to talk about sex, I guess that’s why I have this blog: so that those who want to listen (read) can.  But there is something even more wanton when you…

  • Who’s that talking about you?

    Who’s that talking about you?

    Sharon O’Neill (right) who wrote the song Maxine with the actress who played her in the Australian version of the music video (which this image is taken from.) A few days after my Christmas day blog post about whether or not a sex worker should tell her family she is a sex worker, I had a long…

  • Lay back and have some fun

    Lay back and have some fun

    Or get on top and have some fun, whatever the case may be. It’s officially official.  I’ve started work as an escort and I’m available now. Introducing … Amber O’Hara, independent escort, Christchurch, New Zealand.