Amber’s writing
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Amber Ohara’s Sex Work Stories – the book
Read more: Amber Ohara’s Sex Work Stories – the bookIt’s out in hard copy – buy now!If you like a naughty read, here is the blurb from my listing at Amazon. The complete works from series one of Amber O’Hara’s sex worker and MILF…
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Current advertising
Read more: Current advertisingAdvertising CHRISTCHURCH’S PREMIUM MATURE ESCORT, AMBER O’HARA, NOW OFFERING 3 HOUR+ EVENING BOOKINGS ALL YEAR ROUND FOR GENTS, MATURE COUPLES & SINGLE, MATURE LADIES plus new ALL DAY bookings: for 8 or 10 hours including…
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Exploring this blog
Read more: Exploring this blogMy first R18 splash page on the hosted website using my own domain Welcome to my website! Remember when most new websites had that on them? I remember attending a course for a company I…
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Evolution of an escort
Read more: Evolution of an escortClick here for enlarged image of The Garden of Earthly Delights by Hieronymus Bosch. *Image information at the end of this post. I have been interviewed about being an escort a couple of times in Australia…
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Don’t go back!
Read more: Don’t go back!I wanted to do a follow up post to my very early ones about some of my favourite things to wear for sex work. I could have deleted those posts (not just because they are…
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How to punt
Read more: How to puntImage of Simonova and Bond, (James Bond). This post was written back in 2016, but as it is the best advice I have ever seen which is written about successfully being a sex worker’s client…
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Can sex workers and clients stay afloat in a recession?
Read more: Can sex workers and clients stay afloat in a recession?A Dutch pinnace in a rough sea (1625) By Cornelis Verbeeck License: Courtesy of Wikimedia Commons So the recession is due, suddenly, or maybe gradually, paying for sex will be a struggle for some. Some…
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Is sex work a profitable business?
Read more: Is sex work a profitable business?A diagram of Michael Porter’s Five Forces based on an image from Porter M. E., Competitive Advantage: Creating and Sustaining Superior Performance (New York: Free Press, 1985), page 5. I once had a lady come…
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Sex work after lockdown
Read more: Sex work after lockdownYou can’t please all of the people all of the time. You’ll need to login to enjoy this anonymous phone message It seems not long ago that Covid-19 broke out and we were forced into…
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Not About The Heart Of Darkness; Whoring As A Profession At The End Of Capitalism*
Read more: Not About The Heart Of Darkness; Whoring As A Profession At The End Of Capitalism*This is a guest post by Christchurch escort Clio** the Whore. ‘You live in a fantasy’, says my client wistfully. He is lying on my bed in a state of post coital triste, having expounded…
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What a Way to Make a Living
Read more: What a Way to Make a LivingHylas and the Nymphs is a 1896 oil painting by John William Waterhouse. So I’m well and truly back into sex work, although with later hours than I have ever worked due to other things…
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Love as community
Read more: Love as communityTiziano Vecellio, called Titian (b. Pieve di Cadore, ca. 1488-d. Venice, 1576), Venus Blindfolding Cupid, ca. 1565, Borghese Gallery, Rome A contemplation on Amber O’Hara’s What gets women off? and Love within Sex Work. Amber…
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Sex Workers Starting With Why
Read more: Sex Workers Starting With WhyRoy Lichenstein We Rose Up Slowly (1964) Why do sex workers do what they do? I’ve been enjoying the fabulous book Start With Why by Simon Sinek after a recommendation by someone I respect…
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Ways to do sex work – part three (being a domme)
Read more: Ways to do sex work – part three (being a domme)Dominique Stern, a character created by musician Gene Simmons What a mysterious world the provision of domination and fetish services is. It may be an area you’d consider exploring if you have an interest in…
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Ways to do sex work – part two (touring)
Read more: Ways to do sex work – part two (touring)Beautiful Kaikoura on the east coast of the South Island, view from the beach during a brief train stop Touring sex workers are a not-so-modern phenomenon but since the Prostitution Reform Act (2003) in New…
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Ways to do sex work – part one (cam work)
Read more: Ways to do sex work – part one (cam work)My occasional series about selling sex originally coincided (until my blog was rearranged) with the impending release of a film about cam models (ladies who interact with paying and non-paying internet customers via web cams).…
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Advertising and “bait and switch”
Read more: Advertising and “bait and switch”With improvements in technology and the Prostitution Reform Act and ladies becoming independent and doing their own marketing, the sex industry has come so far. You can more or less expect to get what you…
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Equal and Unequal Measures
Read more: Equal and Unequal Measuresby Clio the Whore A Tourist’s Guide to the BDSM World Status is a funny thing and not always what you think it is. Service to others comes in surprising forms. What looks like sheer…
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Is your New Year’s resolution to have more sex?
Read more: Is your New Year’s resolution to have more sex?Image: Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise in Eyes Wide Shut In 1999, Stanley Kubrick released his last film, Eyes Wide Shut, which starred Kidman and Cruise, ‘a Hollywood couple whose marriage was in trouble, about a…
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Sex and Skin Hunger
Read more: Sex and Skin HungerImage: J W Waterhouse The Awakening of Adonis (detail)Here is a guest post by a client talking about how sex workers have helped the issue of ‘skin hunger’ for him personally, following a discussion we had…
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Sex and religion – twain meeting
Read more: Sex and religion – twain meetingI always find it funny how sex (work) and religion are such a taboo combination when, as I mentioned in a previous blog post, Jesus himself was friends with a hooker. As far as churches…
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Sucking and Licking
Read more: Sucking and LickingWhat do blow jobs have in common with Lobster Thermidor? We don’t get Lobster Thermidor at home much either. If you don’t get blow jobs much at home, as this well-known joke hints, you’re in…
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Lady on lady sex work adventures
Read more: Lady on lady sex work adventuresGolden Head by Golden Head, illustration by Dante Rossetti for Christina Rossetti’s Goblin Marketand Other Poems(1862) Golden head by golden head, Like two pigeons in one nest Folded in each other’s wings, They lay down…
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Actresses on Mattresses
Read more: Actresses on MattressesWhile sex workers can genuinely feel affection for some clients, there is usually an element of acting involved (as opposed to robotic and clinical sex work), whether it involves putting on a brave face when…
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Must we mature sex workers still lie about our age?
Read more: Must we mature sex workers still lie about our age?A guest contributor on my blog last year wrote in favour of mature ladies, acknowledging the benefits of more experience and knowledge of the wonders of a woman’s sexuality. While agreeing with this, as an…
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Is tantric sex desirable or even advisable with a sex worker?
Read more: Is tantric sex desirable or even advisable with a sex worker?It’s no secret that one of my favourite “types” of sex is the tantric kind: a kind of slow, meditative, close and not necessarily climactic linking of two people. It’s indulgent: like savouring every mouthful…
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Deeper and Deeper
Read more: Deeper and DeeperStill images in this blogpost are all from Madonna’s official video for Deeper and Deeper. Beware! Our idols and demons will pursue us, until we learn to let them go! Now that I am a…
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Some men (who love their wives) visit escorts
Read more: Some men (who love their wives) visit escortsSometimes couples stay together because they really love each other and want to continue the personal investment they’ve made in their past and the family unit and home. The monogamous ideas that have been passed…
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Outsourcing of sex relations to a sex worker
Read more: Outsourcing of sex relations to a sex workerPhoto: Ever since I was a young girl, I have had a thing for lace. I love reading blogs about sex work and Maggie McNeill’s blog, the Honest Courtesan, is surely one of the best.…
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What do men like?
Read more: What do men like?Johann Zoffany: (part of) The Tribuna of the Uffizi (feat. Titian: Venus of Urbino) Here is a controversial anti-feminist – or is it? – statement by Amber O’Hara: Men are the delicious other halves of our lives…